Why Can’t You Parent Like Me?

This is a question many of us  struggle with and I’m going to address it in a short workshop for parents at the Embassy Suites in East Peoria on Saturday, October 24 and Sunday, October 25. Parents may choose one of the 3 time choices to attend – Saturday morning from 9:30-noon,  or Saturday or Sunday afternoon from 1:30-4:00. The cost is $50/couple or $30/individual. All materials and refreshments will be provided, and workshops will be held to a maximum of 15 couples. If you’d like more information, or to register call me at 309-467-4429.

As a parent coach, this is a question I get asked a lot! Well, actually it’s usually not as much a question as an accusation. One spouse reports that the style of the other is so dissimilar that it makes parenting together a real challenge. I’m here to give you some good news. You can have very different styles and still work together effectively.

In this workshop we will explore 4 different styles and do a short assessment giving each participant some insights about what each style invites from others. That’s a hard pill to swallow, isn’t it? We actually invite behaviors from others depending on our styles. We will also explore what each person needs in the way of encouragement when stressed. If you plan to attend, plan also to have some fun, to gain some insights about yourself and your spouse, and to feel more connected. Truth is, we do better when we feel better, and nothing is more discouraging than feeling like you are all alone. You’re not!

You may email me with any questions at dina@dinaemser.com

Even if you can’t attend, know that your child will learn a lot about flexibility in different situations from navigating your parenting styles. Isn’t is interesting how quickly children learn what’s acceptable when Mom’s home, when Dad’s home and then what happens to the plan when Grandma arrives! Clever little fellows, aren’t they?!

Happy Parenting!